Woman Reconsiders Relationship As Long-Distance Boyfriend's Filthy House Leaves Her Disgusted

Leona Martinez
Nov 28, 2023
Nov 28, 2023

Recently, a woman (OP) went to the r/relationships subreddit to share her tough relationship situation where she doesn't know what to do to seek advice from the online community.

In the post, the woman shared that she is in a long-distance relationship. Initially, she found that the guy didn't have any red flags and was really okay. However, she faced a surprising reality when visiting him.

After she stayed with him, his brother, and his three dogs, she discovered a messy living situation that tested her cleanliness standards.

Now the woman is considering whether she should break up. Scroll down to check it out right now!

Long-Distance Boyfriend's Filthy House Leaves Her Disgusted

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Here's the OP's story:

OP has been dating a guy long-distance with monthly visits

Source: dcollazo01

When staying at the guy's house with his brother, the OP noticed a messy and dirty living environment, suspecting the dad might have a hoarding issue

Source: dcollazo01

On the second day, the OP noticed the dogs in the house don't get walked, leading to messes inside

Source: dcollazo01

A terrible smell in the laundry area is believed to be dog vomit. So the OP asked the guy to clean it before friends came over, but he attempted to mask it with cantaloupe incense

OP asked the guy to clean it before friends came over, but he attempted to mask it with cantaloupe incense

Source: dcollazo01

The guy said to the OP that in the future there would be no pets

Source: dcollazo01

OP is contemplating ending the relationship despite the guy being great in other aspects

Source: dcollazo01

Commenters express skepticism about the guy's behavior, with some predicting potential future issues

Source: Kangaroowrangler_02

Commenter expresses concerns about potential animal abuse and the lack of effort in addressing the living situation

Source: Flower-of-Telperion

This Redditor shares similarities with the OP's situation

Source: umbrellagirl2185

Redditor strongly advises the OP to break up

Source: AnOutrageousCloud

Commenter advises the OP to leave the relationship

Source: anxietyantelope

Have you ever faced a situation where a partner's living conditions surprised you? How did you navigate it, and what advice would you offer the OP in this story? Share your thoughts and similar experiences in the comments below!

Woman Reconsiders Relationship As Long-Distance Boyfriend's Filthy House Leaves Her Disgusted

Here's the OP's story:

OP has been dating a guy long-distance with monthly visits

When staying at the guy's house with his brother, the OP noticed a messy and dirty living environment, suspecting the dad might have a hoarding issue

On the second day, the OP noticed the dogs in the house don't get walked, leading to messes inside

A terrible smell in the laundry area is believed to be dog vomit. So the OP asked the guy to clean it before friends came over, but he attempted to mask it with cantaloupe incense

The guy said to the OP that in the future there would be no pets

OP is contemplating ending the relationship despite the guy being great in other aspects

Commenters express skepticism about the guy's behavior, with some predicting potential future issues

Commenter expresses concerns about potential animal abuse and the lack of effort in addressing the living situation

This Redditor shares similarities with the OP's situation

Redditor strongly advises the OP to break up

Commenter advises the OP to leave the relationship

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