Redditor Plans A Trip To Propose To His Girlfriend, But She Insists On Bringing Her Friends To Join
Planning a romantic trip is all about communicating expectations, but what happens when those plans take an unexpected turn? One Reddit user (OP) faced this situation when his girlfriend invited friends on their carefully planned vacation.
They had organized a ski trip to Colorado for their fifth anniversary, with the user gearing up to propose. However, just five days before the trip, the girlfriend, Sarah, revealed she had invited two friends to join.
Feeling disappointed, the user shared his concerns, emphasizing that the trip was meant to be an intimate celebration for the two of them. Despite expressing this, Sarah insisted her friends couldn't cancel due to existing plans. Although the OP tried to adapt, he was unable to enjoy private moments with Sarah.
After three days of feeling sidelined, the OP decided to cut the trip short and head home. Her friends criticized him for ruining the trip, and Sarah thought he overreacted and disrespected her and her friends.
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OP intended to propose his girlfriend at the end of the trip
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Sarah invited two friends to join, which ruined the OP's plan
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Sarah prioritized her friends over their plans, so OP didn't have private time to propose as originally intended
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Feeling neglected, the OP decided to leave the trip
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OP is questioning whether he is in the wrong for leaving the vacation he planned for his girlfriend
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The OP added this update
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"I'm wondering if she invited her friends to prevent a proposal"
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You need a break to reconsider the relationship
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"She didn't want to have to say no"
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"She knew he was going to propose 100%"
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It's a maladaptive manipulation technique
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The relationship may be irreparable
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"If OP does get married, he should be prepared for her to last-minute invite her friends along for the honeymoon"
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She won't change after getting married
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Reconsider the relationship
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