Man Realizes Girlfriend Is A Gold Digger After She Tells Him To Stop Sending His Sister Money For College
Meet OP, a supportive sibling caught in a financial dilemma. With a sister pursuing a master's degree in the pricey city of New York, OP, alongside their brother, chips in to help the financial strain. The parents' recent retirement leads a reduction in their support, and OP steps up to help his parents.
Enter the girlfriend, concerned about the impact on their shared dream of owning a house. In a conversation with OP, she made suggestions to cut expenses, she proposes ending OP's financial support to the sister. This sparks a clash of perspectives – financial responsibility versus hindrance to future plans.
OP stands firm, emphasizing their commitment to supporting family. The girlfriend, not fully convinced, sees OP as "financially naïve" and fears they're being taken advantage of.
The discussion intensifies, but OP, unwavering, sticks to his decision, even sending money during lunch. The girlfriend expresses disappointment, triggering annoyance from OP, solidifying their commitment to their sister.
Is OP the antagonist or the defender of family ties? Let's check it out and finds out what really happens after OP takes Reddit's advices.
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Here's the full story
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What a wholesome family
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That's not an "expense"
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It's not a scam, seriously
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No, you're not the A-hole. OP
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Wondering what's OP finance is
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Clearly you're not the AH, OP
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Be careful with your girlfriend, OP
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Totally agree with this
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A big, red one
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Op explains his finances more
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New York city is so crazy
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Things got escalated now
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OP got a little bit dumb there, I'd say
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OP's brother is so understanding
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Op's girlfriend is not that wrong either, she has her own reasons
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OP shares how he met his girlfriend
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Clearly out of league, OP makes more
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There were signs
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Even her friends have some problems
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Could this be the end
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Not a win, in my opinion
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Your GF asked you to do what?
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Also yes from me
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I guess that's that for both of them
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OP keeping it real there
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Please tell me this is the end of her staying with OP
![Please tell me this is the end of her staying with OP](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-edit610-paying-for-sister.webp)
So what do you guys think? Clearly OP just snatched a gold digger in my opinion and I'm very glad that he got out and noticed all the red flags his GF has. Drop us your thoughts in the comments below.
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