Woman Sparks Debate Online After She Says No To Boyfriend's Request For Bank Info To Buy Gifts For His Kids

Leona Martinez

On the r/AmItheA**hole subreddit, a woman (OP) recently shared that she found herself tangled in a story of lies and money troubles in her eight-month relationship.

It all started when her boyfriend urgently needed $300 for what seemed like a special gaming device for his son. However, things took a turn when he asked her for her bank info so he could pull the money and she refused. This led to a heated argument and a shocking truth.

Need more details? Keep reading! We are sure that what happens next will make your jaw drop.

The OP asks:

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OP occasionally covers small expenses for three kids of her single dad boyfriend

OP occasionally covers small expenses for three kids of her single dad boyfriend Source: Dices1433

OP's boyfriend urgently asked for a $300 loan to buy a gaming device for his son. When he insisted on receiving her bank account info over the phone, she refused

OP's boyfriend urgently asked for a $300 loan to buy a gaming device for his son Source: Dices1433

OP's boyfriend confronted her for not sharing her bank account info

OP's boyfriend confronted her for not sharing her bank account info Source: Dices1433

OP and her boyfriend had a fight, he left, demanding an apology for both him and his son

OP and her boyfriend had a fight, he left, demanding an apology for both him and his son Source: Dices1433

OP discovered that her boyfriend's claim about needing money for his son's gaming device was a lie

OP discovered that her boyfriend's claim about needing money for his son's gaming device was a lie Source: Dices1433

OP felt furious and betrayed, so she left and avoided his calls

OP felt furious and betrayed, so she left and avoided his calls Source: Dices1433

OP needs time to reassess her relationship

OP needs time to reassess her relationship Source: Dices1433

Here's the comments of Reddit users:

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What are your thoughts on the situation? Do you believe the woman was right to refuse to share her bank info, or do you think it was an overreaction? Have you ever faced a similar dilemma in your relationships? Share your opinions and experiences – we'd love to hear your perspective!