Dad-To-Be Quietly Happy After Wife Gets Pregnant Unexpectedly And Can't Have An Abortion

On the r/AITAH subreddit, one guy (OP) recently posted about his wife's unexpected pregnancy. The OP shared that his wife didn't want to have a kid, and they weren't planning for one. However, one day, he heard a piece of news from her that she was pregnant, and she felt terrible about it. The worst part is that she was pregnant in a place where abortion is against the law.

The OP felt a mix of emotions, from guilt to secret happiness. So now, he is in a dilemma of trying to balance his dream of becoming a dad with his wife's decision not to have kids.

In the comments, the responses from the online community raise important questions about what might happen to the wife and the baby. Scroll down to check out the full story and what the Internet had to say to the OP.

Source: Reddit

OP's wife, who never wanted kids, is unexpectedly pregnant. Although he is secretly happy about the chance to be a father, he feels guilty for having this emotion

OP should have open and detailed discussions with his wife about post-birth plans

Consider the potential long-term impact on the child's well-being and the marriage if the wife remains reluctant to be a parent

Being an unintended child of a mother who resented parenthood led to a difficult childhood and long-term mental health issues

Consider whether you're willing to be the primary caregiver

Prepare to take on the majority of child-rearing responsibilities

The possibility of her wanting to give the child up for adoption

Pregnancy has a huge impact on your wife's body

Assist your wife in obtaining an abortion, then consider separating and finding a new partner

One Redditor says that OP is inconsiderate and even monstrous for feeling secret joy about his wife's unwanted pregnancy

The OP is criticized for being perceived as selfish and a bad husband