The Redditor (OP) recently shared on the r/AmItheA**hole subreddit that she found herself in a sticky situation after a seemingly harmless decision to let her boyfriend use a roommate's bathroom.
The OP detailed that she had her boyfriend over. Suddenly, both the OP and her boyfriend needed to use the toilet at the same time, so she told him to use her roommate's instead. However, she didn't know that this kicked off a heated argument.
After the OP's roommate knew that a stranger used her toilet, she got angry and accused the OP of not respecting privacy. What the roommate said left the OP questioning whether she was wrong or just that her roommate overreacted. Scroll down to read the entire story.
Here's the full story:
Source: RoommateDrama0203
OP had her boyfriend over, and when her boyfriend needed to use the bathroom urgently, she suggested using her roommate's bathroom
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OP's roommate asked in the group chat if anyone had used her bathroom
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OP faced questioning about her boyfriend using her roommate's bathroom
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OP admitted to telling her boyfriend to use her roommate's bathroom
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The OP is questioning whether she is wrong
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The OP later added some edits to make some facts clear
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She continued
Source: RoommateDrama0203
What you did was wrong
Source: lihzee
"Sounds like you both owe her an apology"
Source: Ancient_Cicada9608
Many people don't like that smell
Source: Broad-Discipline2360
It's a huge privacy violation
Source: ExeUSA
Sorry, but you're wrong
Source: redheadjd
Right
Source: Difficult-Ad802
You "violated your roommates space"
Source: Alarming_Reply_6286
Can confirm
Source: LengthinessFresh4897
It's disrespectful
Source: Mogwai_92
Yes
Source: PunkLaundryBear
What do you guys think about this? Was the OP wrong, or are her roommates being too sensitive? Share your thoughts and tell us if you've been through something similar in shared living. Your stories and opinions are welcome!