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  1. The OP recently bought a car and her sister wants to borrow it
  2. OP is hesitant to lend her car to her sister for a road trip
  3. OP faces family pressure and accusations of selfishness for declining her sister's request to borrow her car
  4. After reading the comments of people online, OP added an edit to the original post
  5. The sister can rent a car for the road trip
  6. 4 words: "I don't trust you."
  7. Straightforwardly decline the sister's request
  8. The family has no right to pressure her
  9. This “family should support each other” arguments
  10. Why the sister doesn't use her own car for the road trip
  11. The sister is the one who is selfish here
  12. The parents can let her borrow their car
  13. Lacking of insurance coverage is a decisive reason to decline the request
  14. The OP should stand up for herself against family pressure
  15. The sister and her friends should contribute money to rent a car
  16. "Your sister is reckless"

Redditor Buys A New Car With Her All Savings, Faces Family Pressure To Lend It To Sister For A Road Trip

This Redditor (OP) just got her dream car after working hard to save up. The excitement of this achievement is quickly challenged when her younger sister, known for being a bit careless with borrowed stuff, drops hints about borrowing the car for a road trip with friends.
The OP worried about her sister's history and the lack of insurance coverage for other drivers. Although the OP's sister assures her that everything will be fine, she still hesitates to let her sister borrow the car. And this sparks family tension.
Now, the OP faces accusations of selfishness when she decides not to lend the car. Want to know how this family dilemma unfolds? Keep reading!
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Redditor Buys A New Car With Her All Savings Source: bestsellingcarsblog.com (not the actual photo)

Let's dig into the details:

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The OP recently bought a car and her sister wants to borrow it

The OP recently bought a car and her sister wants to borrow it Source: social-recall
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OP is hesitant to lend her car to her sister for a road trip

OP is hesitant to lend her car to her sister for a road trip Source: social-recall
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OP faces family pressure and accusations of selfishness for declining her sister's request to borrow her car

OP faces family pressure and accusations of selfishness for declining her sister's request to borrow her car Source: social-recall
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After reading the comments of people online, OP added an edit to the original post

After reading the comments of people online, OP added an edit to the original post Source: social-recall
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The sister can rent a car for the road trip

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4 words: "I don't trust you."

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Straightforwardly decline the sister's request

Straightforwardly decline the sister's request Source: Samorjj
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The family has no right to pressure her

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This “family should support each other” arguments

This “family should support each other” arguments Source: Drink_Deep
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Why the sister doesn't use her own car for the road trip

Why the sister doesn't use her own car for the road trip Source: SchelleGirl
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The sister is the one who is selfish here

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The parents can let her borrow their car

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Lacking of insurance coverage is a decisive reason to decline the request

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The OP should stand up for herself against family pressure

The OP should stand up for herself against family pressure Source: HammerOn57
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The sister and her friends should contribute money to rent a car

The sister and her friends should contribute money to rent a car Source: Murky-Moose3043
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"Your sister is reckless"

What's your take on the OP's situation? Should family support include lending personal stuff, especially when there are worries about responsibility?
Share your thoughts and any similar experiences you've had with family or friends asking for big favors. Your insights can offer helpful perspectives and advice for the OP and others dealing with similar dilemmas.
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