Husband Provides All For His Family Still Gets Asked For Divorce By His Wife
Meet OP, a 37-year-old father, finds himself of a marriage crisis as his wife, 36, has requested a divorce or separation. They have two sons, and work in jobs with different income levels, contributing to the care of their children. The wife, dissatisfied for months and has had a feeling of having more in the relationship.
OP describes his wife as having higher standards, and being the primary decision-maker. In contrast, OP feels overwhelmed and prefers a simpler, more adaptable approach to life. The wife perceives OP as lacking initiative, leading to frustration.
The wife expresses frustration with OP's contributions at home, feeling like she has to care for him like another child. While OP acknowledges his shortcomings, he emphasizes efforts in areas like childcare, nighttime feedings, and supporting her work.
Despite expressing his love for his wife and a reluctance towards divorce, uncertainty looms over the future of their relationship. Let's see Reddit's verdict!
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Setting The Context
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Should Have Learned This Before Having Kids
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Materialism Vs Sentimental Values
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OP Works A Lot And Still Has To Do More
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Imo I Think OP Works Really Hard Enough
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It Is Really A Bad?
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Should Have Learned To Step Up More OP
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Try Couselling OP
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Maybe OP Doesn't Care Much For The House
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It Could Be The Way For OPs Wife To Get Out
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OP Seems Very Unmitivated
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I Guess It's A Type Of Husband
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OP Doesn't Understand It
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OP Does Feel Like A Child
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Maybe OP Knows It Beforehand
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So what do you guys think? It's a sad story that OP though still provides, it could never be enough for his family. Best of luck to you in the future. Drop your comments below.
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