Bride-To-Be Asks Brother Not To Wear His Wedding Rings To Her Wedding, He Refuses And Gets Labeled Wedding Hijacker

Dramatics at the wedding of OP's sister were not quite as enjoyable

OP unintentionally goes off the radar with family due to a habit of independence. His mother is the same

OP had been in Ireland for about eight months, initially planning a two-week visit with a best friend he had grown apart from in recent years but extended their stay to reconnect

OP got married during his extended stay in Ireland. He sent a mass email to close family about it two weeks before his sister's wedding, but his mom felt hurt for not being informed sooner

His sister requested he not wear wedding rings to her ceremony

OP refused, resulting in his sister not speaking to him

Regardless of wearing rings, everyone already knew about the OP's marriage. The sister must've been pretty hurt

OP is in the wrong for stealing the spotlight during the rehearsal dinner and detracting from the sister's big day

There may be undisclosed details

Commenter criticizes the OP's seemingly self-centered and thoughtless behavior, particularly their sudden marriage announcement

He only thinks of himself

Not wearing a wedding ring to the sister's wedding may not make a significant difference

The email announcement before the sister's wedding might have heightened, not alleviated, the "stealing thunder" concerns

OP was thoughtless