Redditor Refuses To Show Up At Their Birthday Party Because Family Shifts Focus To Their Sister's Baby Introduction
On the r/AmItheA**hole subreddit, the Redditor recently shared that their birthday plans had taken an unexpected turn. Two years ago, they decided to cut ties with their sister, who was making life tough with her drama.
Now, as the OP's birthday approaches, the family wants to shift the focus to the sister's new baby, leaving the birthday person feeling left out once again.
The OP wonders if it's okay to just want one day where the spotlight is on them. What should the OP do now? Should they stand up for themselves and keep the peace with the family? Scroll down to read the entire story. And share your thoughts with us in the comments!
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The OP has consistently felt overlooked and mistreated
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The OP cut off contact with their sister two years ago due to her manipulative behavior
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The OP feels hurt and unimportant as their family shifts the focus of their birthday celebration to meet their sister's new baby
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The commenter advises the OP not to attend the celebration
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Stand up for yourself
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Forgiving or forgetting
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Agree!
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The OP should communicate honestly with their family
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Have fun with people that appreciate and respect you
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Yes
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Enjoy a separate celebration with your friends
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The commenter advises the OP to cut ties with their family
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Make personal plans
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Stand firm against any pressure
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Commenter advises the OP to maintain no contact and consider limited or no contact with anyone pressuring them to reconcile
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Set boundaries for your mental health
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What are your thoughts on the OP's situation? Share your insights or similar experiences—your perspective might offer valuable support and advice to those navigating complex family relationships.
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