Is This 22-Year-Old Bride Unreasonable For Excluding Her 20-Year-Old Friend From Her 'Child-Free' Wedding?

Leona Martinez
Nov 24, 2023
Nov 24, 2023

On the r/AmItheA**hole subreddit, a bride-to-be (OP) recently shared a story about the rules she set for guests at her wedding, which were opposed and criticized by many people.

In the post, she explained that she was 22 years old and she planned a child-free wedding with a 21 age limit because there would be alcohol at her wedding and she didn't want to have to worry about underage drinking.

Things got a little bit tricky when one of the OP's friends was only 20 years old, so she had to exclude her. Her friend then accused her of being a bad friend.

Now, seeking opinions on Reddit, the OP wonders if she's wrong for wanting her wedding day a certain way. Want to find out how this wedding tale unfolds? Keep reading for more details!

Bride excludes 20-year-old from her 'child-free' wedding, faces criticisms

Bride-To-Be Faces Criticism Over Childfree wedding

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The OP asks:

OP is having a childfree wedding with a 21 age cutoff for guests

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OP had to exclude her friend (20f) from the wedding due to concerns about underage drinking

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OP's friend accused her of being a bad friend

Source: 21wedding

Despite OP's efforts to explain her reasons, her friend continues to criticize her behind her back and make snarky comments

Source: 21wedding

Here's the comments of Reddit users:

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What are your thoughts on the bride's decision to exclude a 20-year-old from her 'child-free' wedding? Share your opinions and any similar experiences you've had or witnessed in the realm of wedding planning. We're curious to hear your perspectives!

Is This 22-Year-Old Bride Unreasonable For Excluding Her 20-Year-Old Friend From Her 'Child-Free' Wedding?

Bride excludes 20-year-old from her 'child-free' wedding, faces criticisms

The OP asks:

OP is having a childfree wedding with a 21 age cutoff for guests

OP had to exclude her friend (20f) from the wedding due to concerns about underage drinking

OP's friend accused her of being a bad friend

Despite OP's efforts to explain her reasons, her friend continues to criticize her behind her back and make snarky comments

Here's the comments of Reddit users:

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