After a divorce, the Redditor (OP) is trying to p out how to co-parent with his ex for the sake of their 3-year-old, Henry. Things get a bit tricky when the ex's new partner and her 12-year-old stepson enter the scene.
The OP suggests a special day to show Henry that his parents can get along, but there's a twist – the ex wants her stepson to be part of it too. This creates a problem because the stepson tends to overshadow Henry with his outgoing personality, leaving the OP wondering how to make sure Henry feels important.
Now, the OP is wondering if it's okay to want a day with just the parents and their son. Scroll down to read the entire story. Share your thoughts with us in the comments.
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The OP asks:
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The OP's son, Henry, becomes very sad and withdrawn when his divorced parents are in the same room
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OP suggested a day for him, his ex, and possibly her girlfriend to focus on their son Henry, but she insisted on including her stepson
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The OP is questioning if he is in the wrong for wanting a day with just the his ex and their son
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Having separate special days with individual kids is necessary
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Prioritize quality time with your child before including the ex's stepson
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Seek a counselor or therapist to help the child understand the divorce situation
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The ex's stepson may be impacting the child's behavior
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Talk to the child about his feelings
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"It's not really normal for him to be hiding behind you"
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A good dad
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"It's not normal"
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Many red flags here
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Luckily, he has his Dad fighting for his well-being
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It's kind of a red flag
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You don't have to
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What do you think about the OP's situation? Should they have a day with just the parents and their son, or is it fair to include the ex's stepson?
Have you ever dealt with similar family challenges? Share your thoughts and experiences – we're curious to hear what you have to say about handling family dynamics!