Man Asks If He's Wrong To Stop Adopting A Cat Because His GF Keeps Delaying Everything And Disrespecting His Efforts

If there is something that can connect two people in love, it's the pet. Many couples try owning a pet together because they want to share the responsibility of being parents, which makes the bond between them stronger.
This couple has been together for a year and recently decided to get a pet. They finished the online form provided by the shelter. Then, they needed to ask for their apartment's approval to own a pet in their house. However, his GF started delaying approaching the apartment manager and asking her for permission.

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Even after they got the approval, the GF prevented her BF from taking the kitten home. She explained that they were going to have a 6-day-cruise the following month, which was too much time during the formative kitten months. Although her BF suggested sending the cat to his friend who was a major cat guy, the GF denied it.
The BF ended up putting his foot down and saying that they would no longer get a cat. He thought that his time and efforts were being disrespected, while the GF was crying and blaming him for controlling her.

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Who do you think is right in this situation?
After the story was posted on Reddit, it gained 1.3K upvotes and hundreds of comments. Netizens took the BF's side and here is how they reacted to the post.

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