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Woman Brings Cat Home And Turns It To Trigger For The Breakdown Of Rocky Marriage

There's no doubt that raising a pet can bring lots of benefits to the family. animals are adorable, interesting, and even helpful because they can be amazing companions for our kids. Not only the adopter, the whole family must be aware of this issue and willing to be responsible for them. Hence, if any family member  has the idea of getting a new pet, it is necessary for him to receive acceptance from everybody before actually working on it.
Today, we would like to tell you a story about a woman who desired to get a cat. And, by adopting a cat, this woman has added lots of troubles to her strained relationship with her husband.
It was a status shared by a user named Ok_Excitement3170 with people of the “ Am I The A**hole” (AITA) subreddit. She told everyone at the group that she had a struggling marriage with her husband. However, they tried to maintain the relationship for the sake of their children.

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The couple has two kids and both of them are fond of animals. Therefore, the original poster (OP) asked her husband for permission to get a pet. Unfortunately, the husband seemed to have no interest in raising an animal so he refused to have one. He said that he was not ready for the commitment.

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But the OP didn't listen. She got her kids a cat despite her husband’s rejection. Her husband even did not know about it until the cat was adopted.

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After knowing the situation, the OP’s husband was, of course, totally mad. He told her that it was the last straw. Still, she believed she was not at fault.

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After the post was published, lots of comments were written criticizing the woman. She was said to be the a**hole as she still got the cat after getting a refusal from her husband.

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She was so disrespectful to ask for acceptance from her daughter before mentioning it to her husband.

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The community also agrees that the poor cat will be the one who has to suffer all the troubles after he was adopted.

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It’s necessary for the woman to realize these following facts.

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In the end, adopting a cat is not the problem, the actual problem is the adopter’s attitude. Do you think that a woman who could not handle her own business and could not take good care of her children has the ability to spend time with a new pet? In this story, it is clear that the OP has trouble dealing with her own family. And, instead of facing the family's issues, she chose to ignore it and blamed others for everything that happened. It is now time for the woman to realize what situation she is in and seriously think about it. She can consider couples counseling as an effective way to solve marriage problems. Also, we believe that there is more than a way for the couple to help their children, which doesn't include having a pet.
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