Meat-Loving Groom Secretly Cancels Vegan Meals, Bride-To-Be Cancels Wedding And Leaves Him
In the original story and the current update, a couple about to get married faces a disagreement concerning vegan food options for their wedding. The person sharing the story, who is vegan due to health reasons, wishes to offer 4-5 vegan choices. However, their partner and future mother-in-law object, considering it costly and not substantial "real food." They argue that this might offend guests and propose serving basic salads instead. The storyteller stands firm, expressing the desire for all guests to feel welcome. To their dismay, they discover that their partner secretly removed all vegan options from the menu without their consent. This discovery leads to a confrontation at the partner's workplace and an intense argument at home. The partner justifies their actions by claiming the storyteller ignored their opinions and failed to consider their family.
In the update, the storyteller reveals that the conversation didn't go well. They noticed a recurring pattern of their partner valuing their family's viewpoints over theirs. The partner insisted that their family's appreciation for food should be respected. Feeling hurt by their partner's disregard for their opinions, the storyteller decided to end the relationship. This was their first serious relationship, and they were uncertain about what to anticipate, but they felt constantly undermined. Ultimately, they chose to prioritize their own happiness and the well-being of their family. For more details, read further below.
The story in detail:
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The conversation between OP and her fiance did not go well.
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OP’s fiance thought it was not a big deal to not to include vegan options and that made OP realize her decisions don’t matter to him.
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OP would make a compromise but it was not just about the food now.
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OP called off the wedding and OP’s partner thinks she chose her family over him.
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Update on the story.
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And the comments from other Redditors roll in…
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They would have offered meat and the vegan dishes would not hurt them.
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Why would the fiance not care about her likeness?
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People are unbelievable.
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People are commending OP to call off the marriage.
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The fiance had double standards where he only wanted his opinion to be valued.
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