Guy Questions If He Was Body-Shaming His Girlfriend By Asking Her To Stop Eating His Sister's Food

OP's sister, who's around 23 years old, runs a bakery business and often finds herself short-staffed. This makes her work extra hard, especially for big orders like wedding cakes that need special fillings like custard or marmalade. Seeing his sister struggle, OP steps in to help. He makes these fillings at home and delivers them to the bakery to ease her workload.

Trouble arises when OP's girlfriend repeatedly contaminates the fillings by dipping her fingers into the jar. OP explains that this ruins the fillings and asks her to use a spoon if she wants to taste them. However, she prefers dipping her fingers for nostalgia.

On another occasion, OP makes chocolate custard to assist his sister, who's running late on an important wedding cake order. He warns his girlfriend not to dip her fingers in the custard and to use a spoon if she wants to try it. What happens next is quite a shocker – keep scrolling to find out the whole story and decide who's in the wrong!

OP assists her sister by making fillings of cakes at home so she has less work to do

OP made the fillings four times before. Each time, her girlfriend stuck her fingers into the filling jar, making everything inside unclean. OP told her girlfriend to use a spoon when she wants to eat from the jar instead of using her fingers.

OP told her girlfriend beforehand that if she wants to eat the custard she can use a spoon.

OP lost his cool when she saw her dipping her fingers into the jar for the 5th time.

ven though OP did not fat-shame her she started crying and got mad at OP claiming he fat-shamed her.

This is hilarious but that’s what children do not adults and she is totally acting up like a child.

This comment made OP laugh.

This user thinks that her crying and the fat shaming part was an excuse to get out of trouble, what do you think?

This user got a point, what if OP did it? Would she react differently?

The best excuse OP is gonna give is when caught in the act “it takes me back to my childhood”

And the problem would still be here “contamination”

Plain and simple: NTA.

Anyone with an ounce of common sense which we think she lacks.

OP is definitely NTA.

She is wrecking OP’s relationship with her sister.

There might be some hidden issues around food that urge her to do it!

These could be the motives.