Life after marriage got pretty rocky for this wife (OP). At first, she and her husband agreed she'd cover the bills while he managed other stuff.
But, surprise, he started to cut down on his work hours, claiming that the OP made plenty of money for both of them. He then ended up spending most of his time going to the bar, playing video games, and leaving household chores for the OP.
When the husband claimed he got laid off, she took on all the costs, including his leisure activities and job-search-related costs, although her income was not sufficient. It turns out he quit and never looked for a new one.
Now, the OP won't let him go back home without a job, causing family tension. The story's got twists and turns, leaving us wondering: is the OP doing the right thing, or is there more to the tale? Stick around to find out!
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Let's dig into the details:
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OP and her husband decided he would move in with her and she would pay the rent and bills
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The husband reduced his work hours and spent most of his time socializing and playing video games, leaving the OP to handle both work and domestic responsibilities
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The husband was laid off, and the OP started covering all expenses
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The husband quit his job without looking for another one, a heated argument ensued
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The OP faced criticism from in-laws for not let her husband return home until he gets a job
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Letting him back without a job would be inviting a freeloading roommate scenario
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OP should get a divorce as he contributes nothing to the relationship and has no intention of being a partner
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The OP should not give in
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OP, you are not wrong
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Commenter suggests seeking an annulment to avoid financial repercussions
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This redditor agrees with that idea
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His ease stems from not contributing anything
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Commenter advises her to get a lawyer promptly to protect her assets in the current situation of separation
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What are your thoughts on the situation? Have you ever faced challenges in a relationship involving financial strain and unequal responsibilities? Feel free to share your insights or similar experiences—your perspectives could offer valuable insights or support to those going through tough times.