On the r/AmItheA**hole subreddit, Redditor u/krose_7137 recently shared that she faced a tough time living with their sister-in-law and her three kids.
She detailed that when her partner's sister had some financial issues and ended up having no place to go, the OP and her partner agreed to let the sister-in-law and her three kids stay at their house temporarily.
But you know what? This kind gesture turned into a year-long struggle with blurred boundaries and growing frustrations. The sister-in-law didn't contribute to bills and often left the house messy, which irritated the OP and her partner. Moreover, times passed, but the sister-in-law still stayed unemployed, and she didn't even want to move out.
Things got even messier when the sister-in-law allied with the biological mom of the OP's stepson to break up the OP and her partner. What do you think about what the sister-in-law did to the OP? Scroll down to read the entire story. Also, share your thoughts with us in the comments!
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When the boyfriend's sister faced financial difficulties, the OP offered her and her 3 kids a place to stay until they find their own
Source: krose_7137
Times passed and the sister-in-law remained unemployed. She didn't even contribute to bills, and left the house messy
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The OP compiled a list of available houses for lease, but the sister-in-law showed little interest in moving out
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The OP found that her sister-in-law was scheming with the stepson's biological mother to break up her and her partner
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Just to make some facts clear, the OP added some edits
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The OP is not in the wrong
Source: goforbroke432
The OP should immediately pack their belongings, and escort them out; if needed, change locks, and be prepared to involve the police
Source: blueberryyogurtcup
Putting your own needs first is crucial
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The OP should install a lock on their bedroom door and keep it locked
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Protect valuables by moving the TV or changing passwords, and on the move-out day, have a locksmith upgrade and change the locks
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The OP should invite friends on moving day for added witnesses, protection, and assistance with packing
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This Redditor also shares a personal experience
Source: blueberryyogurtcup
The sister-in-law is taking advantage of the OP and her partner
Source: SilverEyedFreak
The OP is not wrong
Source: OrcEight
Have you ever faced a situation where a family member overstayed their welcome? How did you handle it, and what advice would you share with others in similar predicaments? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments!