Mom Faces Backlash For Letting Oldest Daughter Take Care Of Youngest Daughter's Dog When She Moves Out

Leona Martinez

On the r/AmItheA**hole subreddit, a mom (OP) posted a story about how she was criticized for allowing her oldest daughter to take care of the family dog when she moved out.

In the post, she shared that her family currently lives in a pricey city. She has three daughters—Phoebe, Maddie, and Lily. Her husband spoils the youngest, Lily, a lot. He even bought a dog for her, despite the opposition of the OP and their eldest daughter, Phoebe.

The dog then became a big deal as it created a tug-of-war in the family.

Through time, Lily's interest in the dog has faded, and the oldest daughter has had to step in to care for him. And when the oldest graduated and moved out, the OP agreed to let her take the dog, which caused a heated argument in the family.

Was the OP wrong? Scroll down to read the whole story!

Here's the full story:

aitadogcustody's questionSource: aitadogcustody

OP's husband consistently spoils their youngest daughter Lily, as evidenced by his decision to get her a dog despite the opposition of the OP and their eldest daughter, Phoebe

OP's husband consistently spoils their youngest daughter Lily Source: aitadogcustody

Lily later got a cat, Phoebe stepped in to become Charlie's primary caretaker

Lily later got a cat, Phoebe stepped in to become Charlie's primary caretaker Source: aitadogcustody

Phoebe recently graduated and found an ideal apartment with affordable pet rent. OP agreed to let her take the dog

OP agreed to let her take the dog Source: aitadogcustody

Lily got upset when the OP told Phoebe she could take care of the family dog, and the husband supported Lily

Lily got upset when the OP told Phoebe she could take care of the family dog Source: aitadogcustody

Op later added in the comments that she faced financial and personal challenges

Op later added in the comments that she faced financial and personal challenges Source: moew4974

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