Guy Decides To Choose His Late Father's Name For Newborn Without Knowing Wife's Ex Shares The Same Name

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Redditor (OP), under the username u/stopjustinbeiber, recently shared a story on the r/AmItheA**hole subreddit to ask the online community for their opinions, as he didn't know whether he was wrong.

In the post, he detailed that he and his wife were all set to welcome their baby boy after six years of marriage. However, the excitement turned into a naming dilemma. They decided to wait until after the birth, but suddenly his wife had to get an emergency C-section.

Amidst the stress of the unplanned surgery, the OP picked his late father's name, Francis, for the paperwork without telling his wife about this idea. After the labor, his wife got angry, and a heated argument ensued.

Curious about the reason why the wife didn't like that name and got furious? Keep reading for more details!

Guy Decides To Choose His Late Father's Name For Newborn Source: mother.ly (not the actual photo)

So now the OP is asking...

stopjustinbeiber's storySource: stopjustinbeiber

After many years, OP and his wife finally had a baby boy. They were having some trouble on naming their son.

OP had decided to name their son after his recently deceased father, Francis, but he couldn't tell his wife about this idea

OP named their son Francis on the official paperwork

OP's wife objected because it was her ex's name

OP is facing a strained relationship with his wife after a naming disagreement

Just to make some facts clear, the OP added some details

OP should apologize and seek forgiveness

OP should apologize and seek forgiveness Source: MousingJoke

Change the name

Change the name Source: Jollycondane

OP is insensitive

OP is insensitive Source: queenofwasps

OP was a jerk for making such a significant decision without consulting his wife

OP was a jerk for making such a significant decision without consulting his wife Source: InkedAlly

OP gets criticized for accusing his wife of being hung up on her ex due to the naming disagreement

Commenter questions whether the OP's story is real

Commenter criticizes OP for selfishly taking away the important decision of naming the baby from his wife

Commenter criticizes OP for selfishly taking away the important decision of naming the baby from his wife Source: LurksAroundHere

The OP may have previously suggested the name during pregnancy

The OP may have previously suggested the name during pregnancy Source: sherlocked27

Commenter criticizes him as incompetent and clueless

Commenter criticizes him as incompetent and clueless Source: Glad_Shop5765

"Change the child's name"

Source: JMarie113

Ever had trouble picking a name for your baby with your partner? Join the conversation about a recent story where a husband named their newborn after his late father, not realizing it was also the name of his wife's ex. Share your thoughts and any similar experiences you might have!