Man Being Told By Reddit That His Ex-wife Is Using Him For Everything

From the glorified r/AmIthe*sshole, we found a drama that has everything: divorce, money, daughter and abandonment.

OP, a divorced father, is facing a dilemma regarding the living arrangements for his two daughters. He is responsible for maintaining the mortgage andbills on the former family home until the girls turn 19. Meanwhile, he  is left with the task of handling existing debts totaling $45k.

Living in the cheapest housing option available, OP cannot afford a larger place to host his daughters overnight. Despite his desire to share 50/50 childcare responsibilities, he prioritizes using the money to pay down his debts.

OP argues that securing a larger place immediately could jeopardize his financial stability, especially with anticipated increases in mortgage costs due to rising interest rates and a second equity loan in the coming years.

OP's ex-wife, although earning a lower wage than the current mortgage on the family home, insists on an immediate change in living arrangements and is taking the matter to court. Let's see Reddit's verdict on this one.

Let's See How It Unfolds

Though I'm Not A Lawyer But This Looks Really Bad

OP Saves A Few Dimes But Theres Nothing He Can't Do

Wow Your Ex Is Something Huh OP

I'd Say OP Made A Right Choice To Get Out Of This Marriage

I Don't Think You Are But You Might Need Some Legal Help Here

Top Comment Agrees With Me

It Is Really A Bad Divorce Settlement

OP's Ex-Wife Is Really Controlling

I See It Like That Too

Feels Like OP Is The Loser Here

Thoughful Dad

Lol Not Like That

Thinking Like This Makes Me Think OP Is Still Doing Everthing For His Kids

At Least This Is A Good Deal For OP

OP Should Explain These More In The Post

Indeed Two Different Things

I See

Seems Like A Good Plan