From the glorified r/AmIthe*sshole, we found a drama that has everything: divorce, money, daughter and abandonment.
OP, a divorced father, is facing a dilemma regarding the living arrangements for his two daughters. He is responsible for maintaining the mortgage andbills on the former family home until the girls turn 19. Meanwhile, he is left with the task of handling existing debts totaling $45k.
Living in the cheapest housing option available, OP cannot afford a larger place to host his daughters overnight. Despite his desire to share 50/50 childcare responsibilities, he prioritizes using the money to pay down his debts.
OP argues that securing a larger place immediately could jeopardize his financial stability, especially with anticipated increases in mortgage costs due to rising interest rates and a second equity loan in the coming years.
OP's ex-wife, although earning a lower wage than the current mortgage on the family home, insists on an immediate change in living arrangements and is taking the matter to court. Let's see Reddit's verdict on this one.
Let's See How It Unfolds
![Let's See How It Unfolds](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-1-lets-see-how-it-unfolds-debt-paid-off.webp)
Though I'm Not A Lawyer But This Looks Really Bad
![Though I'm Not A Lawyer But This Looks Really Bad](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-2-though-im-not-a-lawyer-but-this-looks-really-bad-debt-paid-off.webp)
OP Saves A Few Dimes But Theres Nothing He Can't Do
![OP Saves A Few Dimes But Theres Nothing He Can't Do](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-3-op-saves-a-few-dimes-but-theres-nothing-he-cant-do-debt-paid-off.webp)
Wow Your Ex Is Something Huh OP
![Wow Your Ex Is Something Huh OP](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-4-wow-your-ex-is-something-huh-op-debt-paid-off.webp)
I'd Say OP Made A Right Choice To Get Out Of This Marriage
![I'd Say OP Made A Right Choice To Get Out Of This Marriage](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-5-id-say-op-made-a-right-choice-to-get-out-of-this-marriage-debt-paid-off.webp)
I Don't Think You Are But You Might Need Some Legal Help Here
![I Don't Think You Are But You Might Need Some Legal Help Here](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-6-i-dont-think-you-are-but-you-might-need-some-legal-help-here-debt-paid-off.webp)
Top Comment Agrees With Me
![Top Comment Agrees With Me](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-7-top-comment-agrees-with-me-debt-paid-off.webp)
It Is Really A Bad Divorce Settlement
![It Is Really A Bad Divorce Settlement](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-8-it-is-really-a-bad-divorce-settlement-debt-paid-off.webp)
OP's Ex-Wife Is Really Controlling
![OP's Ex-Wife Is Really Controlling](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-9-ops-ex-wife-is-really-controlling-debt-paid-off.webp)
I See It Like That Too
![I See It Like That Too](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-10-i-see-it-like-that-too-debt-paid-off.webp)
Feels Like OP Is The Loser Here
![Feels Like OP Is The Loser Here](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-11-feels-like-op-is-the-loser-here-debt-paid-off.webp)
Thoughful Dad
![Thoughful Dad](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-12-thoughtful-dad-debt-paid-off.webp)
Lol Not Like That
![Lol Not Like That](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-13-lol-not-like-that-debt-paid-off.webp)
Thinking Like This Makes Me Think OP Is Still Doing Everthing For His Kids
![Thinking Like This Makes Me Think OP Is Still Doing Everthing For His Kids](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-14-thinking-like-this-makes-me-think-op-is-still-doing-everything-for-his-kids-debt-paid-off.webp)
At Least This Is A Good Deal For OP
![At Least This Is A Good Deal For OP](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-15-at-least-this-is-a-good-deal-for-op-debt-paid-off.webp)
OP Should Explain These More In The Post
![OP Should Explain These More In The Post](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-16-op-should-explain-these-more-in-the-post-debt-paid-off.webp)
Indeed Two Different Things
![Indeed Two Different Things](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-17-indeed-two-different-things-debt-paid-off.webp)
I See
![I See](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-18-i-see-debt-paid-off.webp)
Seems Like A Good Plan
![Seems Like A Good Plan](https://aubtu.biz/medias/26/2023-12/0-0-19-seems-like-a-good-plan-debt-paid-off.webp)