Wife Doesn't Know What To Do When Her Husband Wants A Divorce Without Knowing That She's Pregnant

After getting pregnant, this Redditor (OP) had a hasty shotgun wedding with her husband. After that, she quit her job to take care of their daughter while her husband worked longer hours. Her husband wants a big family (father, mother, two children, and one dog); however, they can't have more children because she gets cancer.

The OP got pregnant many times but usually ended with a miscarriage. Because of this, her husband suggested not sharing pregnancy news until the third or fourth month.

Recently, her husband told her that he wanted a divorce. However, the thing is, the OP is pregnant, and she doesn't know what to do or whether she should tell her wife about it.

So she came to the r/relationship_advice subreddit to ask the online community for their opinions.

OP recently learned that her husband wants a divorce

The OP was diagnosed with cancer

Her husband suggested not sharing pregnancy news until the third or fourth month because she had miscarried many times

Her husband have her divorce papers a week ago and refused to provide a reason that can be resolved

OP is wondering whether she should reveal her pregnancy

OP is fear that revealing her pregnancy to her husband during the divorce process might be perceived as manipulation to either prevent the divorce or secure more financial support

Her husband is selfish

OP should prioritize legal guidance over worrying about his perception

OP doesn't owe her distant husband a heads up due to his lack of explanation for the divorce

Her husband's neglect of their daughter suggests the pregnancy won't alter their relationship

"Good luck with 7 children"

"This guy is a monster and you owe him nothing"

The husband wants a divorce because the OP is now too old