So, there's this guy (M39) who spilled the tea about his past with his now-wife, and it's a wild ride. Back in the day, when he was just 20, his girlfriend (now-wife) pulled a real shocker – she intentionally got pregnant to lock him down. Yup, you heard it right. No accidental baby here; she straight-up confessed to the plot and seemed kinda proud of it.
Now, our dude never got over this bombshell. He had plans to divorce her once their kid, Callie (F19), grew up. But hold your horses, because he's got a soft spot for Callie. Despite the rocky start, he loves her more than life itself.
Fast forward to the present – Callie's all grown up and ready for university. The guy drops the D-bomb (divorce) on his wife, and she's not having it. Cue the family drama and mudslinging. But here's the kicker – the wife starts telling Callie that Dad's divorcing because he's got a secret side piece and guilt trips the guy. So what's the verdict here and how the internet can help him out? Check it out below!
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Source: u/Electrical_Willow452
OP goes straight to the point
Source: u/Electrical_Willow453
The Silver Lining of OP's marriage
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The plot thickens
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OP made a big mistake here
Source: u/Electrical_Willow456
OP married a big nut job there I'd say
Source: u/Electrical_Willow457
Other people know right away what to do
Source: Chessii_Cat
This reddit user however wants OP to be careful
Source: thegirlwhofsup
It seems like the only way OP has there
Source: SpanielGal
This guy however draws out an outline for OP in case OP needs it
Source: MightyPitchfork
Personally, I don't think so, Syrinx221
Source: Mehitabel9
This guy is reckless giving OP this option
Source: krurran
I argree this is the best advice
Source: armchairdetective
So what do you guys think? Personnally, I think that OP should go straight to the point with his daughter and wait for her reaction. Or perhaps try to secretly record OP's wife admiting that this is her plan.
But whatever the outcome is, this family will be broken into pieces if OP decides to tell his daughter the truth or not. Divorce will always be bad for familys.