Things get complicated for this family when the Redditor breaks her promise to her daughter about not remarrying and having kids after the divorce. In the post, the OP detailed how her daughter was initially okay with her split but suddenly didn't want things to change. So the OP promised her daughter that she would not remarry. However, about a year and a half ago, she got engaged, which caused trouble.
Now, with the daughter and her dad against the OP, potential legal action is looming. The OP is caught in a tough spot, trying to balance what her child wants with what's best for her. Scroll down to read the entire story!
The OP asks:
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OP's daughter asked her to never get married and have kids, and she agreed
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When OP got married with her new husband, her daughter got upset she accused her of breaking promise
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Her ex-husband wanted to change custody
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Now, the OP is regretting her promise to not remarry
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OP is in the wrong for breaking a promise to her child
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OP should have discussed the decision with her daughter before getting engaged
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The core problem is the OP's lack of effort in trying to communicate with her daughter before making decisions
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People really need to have their children as priorities
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The move may damage their relationship irreparably
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Therapy here is the best solution
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OP was wrong for disregarding the daughter's need for stability
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Show respect and compassion by talking to her and delaying the new living arrangements
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Understanding the child's perspective is very important
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Commenter criticizes the OP for invalidating her daughter's feelings
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Introducing a new partner without her consent is disruptive
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What are your thoughts on this situation? Do you believe the OP is justified in moving forward with her engagement, or should she prioritize her daughter's concerns? Have you faced similar challenges or know someone who has? Share your insights and experiences in the comments!