Everyone has secrets. And nothing can ensure that your spouse doesn't have anything to hide from you. It can be their background story, their past, or maybe, their gender. It sounds absurd, but recently, a story about an unfortunate woman who discovered that her husband was actually female has gone viral on the internet. This first came to us as, "how did this even happen?"
Speaking about the incident, NA told that they first met on a dating app. Her 'husband' then went by the name Ahnaf Arrafif in Jambi City. After sparking the relationship online, they decided to arrange in-person dates. The affair between them progressed suspiciously quickly with Ahnaf even coming to stay with NA for a week and helping take care of her unwell parents.
Ahnaf never introduced 'his' family. NA's family never knew about their in-laws. His parents didn't show up at the wedding and all the time after that. another thing is that he seemed to be surprisingly relaxed with his work schedule despite claiming to be a qualified doctor. You all know how busy a doctor is, right? Especially a neurologist. There's no way such a high-pressure job could give him time off during the day.
Eventually, all the doubts accumulated to the point that the mother demanded that 'he' strip to prove he was indeed a man. No way to run. Ahnaf admitted that he was actually a woman named Erayani, who had lied about everything including her job. Talking to the Jambi District Court, NA revealed that she never suspected her partner until her mother started to doubt Ahnaf's strange behaviors.
To explain why she didn't find anything wrong with her husband, NA said they had been 'intimate' multiple times but her partner insisted on only using hands only.
Erayani is now in court, but for falsifying her qualifications as a doctor and not for claiming to be a different gender. This story tells us that we all should investigate prospective partners' backgrounds before thinking about marriage. Also, be careful with people you meet online.
#1 Images shown on local media claimed to show NA and her 'husband' Ahnaf Arrafif, whose real name is Erayani
The Indonesian wife, named only as NA, 22, is suing her ex-partner who also claimed to be a neurologist who graduated in New York. NA learned the hard way that her husband of ten months is actually a woman. Even though the couple has been intimate many times, she still didn't realize that until her husband was forced to strip naked.Speaking about the incident, NA told that they first met on a dating app. Her 'husband' then went by the name Ahnaf Arrafif in Jambi City. After sparking the relationship online, they decided to arrange in-person dates. The affair between them progressed suspiciously quickly with Ahnaf even coming to stay with NA for a week and helping take care of her unwell parents.
#2 The couple first met on a dating app with the 'husband' going by the name Ahnaf Arrafif in Jambi City (pictured allegedly on 'his' dating profile)
On top of that, the trickster proposed after only weeks of dating, and NA"s parents gave their blessing. The marriage, of course, came with many questions. After a few months, NA's parents noticed that their son-in-law had many suspicious features.Ahnaf never introduced 'his' family. NA's family never knew about their in-laws. His parents didn't show up at the wedding and all the time after that. another thing is that he seemed to be surprisingly relaxed with his work schedule despite claiming to be a qualified doctor. You all know how busy a doctor is, right? Especially a neurologist. There's no way such a high-pressure job could give him time off during the day.
#3 The trickster proposed after only weeks of dating and NA's parents gave their blessing (allegedly pictured on 'his' dating profile)
And the most noticeable was that NA's mother also picked up on the fact that Ahnaf never took off 'his' clothes and would even bathe with clothes on when others were at home. Being shirtless is so much of a man's thing that if a man never does that, then it's likely to have something wrong with him. Another time, when the wife confronted her partner about lumps on his chest, Ahnaf responded that it was a hormonal problem. Well, 'he' was a 'doctor' anyway. His explanation was more scientifically logical, huh?Eventually, all the doubts accumulated to the point that the mother demanded that 'he' strip to prove he was indeed a man. No way to run. Ahnaf admitted that he was actually a woman named Erayani, who had lied about everything including her job. Talking to the Jambi District Court, NA revealed that she never suspected her partner until her mother started to doubt Ahnaf's strange behaviors.
To explain why she didn't find anything wrong with her husband, NA said they had been 'intimate' multiple times but her partner insisted on only using hands only.
Erayani is now in court, but for falsifying her qualifications as a doctor and not for claiming to be a different gender. This story tells us that we all should investigate prospective partners' backgrounds before thinking about marriage. Also, be careful with people you meet online.