Couple Went Crazy With Each Other About Converting Cat’s Bedroom Into Bedroom For Their Child

Having children is a life-changing decision for every couple, especially when we are taking care of pets in our homes. The story of the following couple after the event of their first baby giving seems too stressful when they have not yet come to an agreement.
Their marriage has been last for 3 years now though they have actually been together for 6 years. Recently, they welcomed their first son and he is 10 months now. They have been living in their current two-bedroom apartment for almost 4 years. Besides the bedroom they used, before our son’s birth, the other is spent for their cat, which they consider their daughter. Everything related to the space of the apartment was fine even when they had family and friends come to visit. The couch in the living room can be pulled out into a bed to be used in emergency situations.

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Since they had the child, the wife has thought about giving him a separate room. Therefore, she mentioned to her husband about buying a toddle bed and placing it in his room (they haven’t been intimate or anything lately because of their child in our room) and the husband was mad at her. They started to severely argue about this issue. After that, the woman suggested they could convert the cat’s room into their child’s bedroom, but the husband continued getting upset about this idea. He did not want to take away his daughter’s room.

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The wife thought there was enough space for the cat’s stuff out of the room, whether in the living room or in the kitchen area. The stuff that the cat has are only a bed, a scratching post, and some toys. They have only a small problem with the scratching post’s height, but it is not even that big. She said she did not mean to kick the cat out, but just move her to another area in the apartment. The child is getting older and he needs his own room while they cannot afford a bigger place. The husband even said that she was an asshole, which made her get crazy.

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Many people have suggested the woman turn it into a nursery, but she never wanted my baby to stay far away. She was aware that she have ignored red flags and got blinded by love when she thought her husband was helping her new mom with jitters. Sadly, she never thought of this conversion earlier, simply because she did not think they would need it. Now, she cannot let her baby leave the bed, but she was certain that her husband wouldn't want to have a teenager still in their room. She did not know what to do with all of these messes.

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The woman has shared their story and got some negative comments. She got shocked because some even wanted their baby to die, others said she was a terrible mom, and what she tried to do was just punish her husband. She thought she should stay away from this post for a while and might get more updates later on.
What do you think about the argument that the couple has experienced? Have you ever witnessed any difficulties that young couples encounter when they have their first child? You can also share with us your own life stories in the common below.