Woman Seeks Advice After Deliberately Causing Her Boyfriend's Friend To Lose A Job Opportunity, Redditors Have Her Back

Emily Mahboobeh

Today's story revolves around a group of friends, mainly focused on Natalie and Jamie's rocky relationship. Jamie's troublesome behavior, including insensitive remarks and a confrontational attitude, has been causing tension in the group. Despite his flaws, they tolerate him because of his connection to Natalie, who is deeply affected by his unemployment.

When Harry, a less familiar member of the group, offers Jamie a job interview, things get complicated. OP, who has experienced Jamie's disrespectful behavior firsthand, discreetly expresses their discomfort to Harry without revealing the full extent of Jamie's actions. This leads to Jamie not getting the job, which upsets Natalie and divides their friend circle. Now, they're debating whether the narrator's actions were justified and if Jamie's off-hours behavior should affect his job opportunities.

Scroll down to find out the full details of the story and what internet users have to say about it.

OP has a friend Natalie, who has a boyfriend Jamie but Jamie is a rude person and he even makes below-the-belt jokes.

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OP said the reason they put up with him is if they don’t they’ll never see Natalie.

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OP’s roommate Harry recently had a job come up in his company and Natalie asked him to interview Jamie for.

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Harry saw that it made OP uncomfortable she told Harry that Jamie just makes demeaning remarks about OP.

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Harry took the interview with Jamie and made him do a lot of prep work and presentation moreover, the interview went extremely long.

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Due to this Natalie is not speaking to OP and the friends circle is divided.

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Now OP is not sure whether she should apologize because she didn’t say anything negative about him just told them the way he was.

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Natalie figured that the only person who would have changed Harry’s mind about doing it a favor would be OP, so she called her.

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OP said that Harry and she they are roommates, she even told the users that the interview was not held at the apartment, but somewhere else.

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Here comes the comments:

By the way the interview didn’t have anything to do with the OP, she just told her the basic facts about Jamie.

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Exactly, OP owes you nothing and he isn’t even her friend.

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This is a solid point, even if the hiring manager is your friend you still need to make it up to the merit.

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OP is definitely NTA.

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This is somehow true, what do you think?

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Every action has a reaction and he should have seen it coming.

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True.

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