As the joyful holiday season drew near, one Reddit user found herself caught in a web of complex emotions and conflicting priorities. With her family eagerly anticipating their traditional Christmas dinner, the Redditor grappled with an internal struggle that had far-reaching implications. On one hand, her sister's pregnancy added an unexpected twist to the plans, raising questions about practical considerations for long-distance travel due to car sickness. Simultaneously, the OP had a precious secret of her own—she, too, was expecting, but she had chosen to keep this delightful news under wraps until the Christmas celebration. As the Redditor faced family criticism for refusing to alter the Christmas plan without divulging her pregnancy, she sought solace and guidance from the Reddit community, wondering if she had made the right decision.
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Oh no! We are so sorry for what happened to you, OP!
Sounds like a dilemma.
The stress over the last-minute change was stressing OP. She didn't know if she was wrong to object the plan.
So that's the story. Let's see how people reacted and how OP replied to them.
Sad but true.
Poor OP!
OP really needs to start speaking up for herself.
Hmmmm
Just tell them it doesn't work for you, OP!
Do what's best for you and your child.
They only think you're difficult because they got used to you going along with whatever plans they have. Don't do that again!
Good take!
Indeed!
Don't be a people pleaser!
That's exactly what is happening here! OP was raised to be guilty about situations like that.
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