Living with a roommate who doesn't take care of shared stuff is tough. Whether it's small things or important items, the constant frustration of dealing with someone who doesn't respect shared spaces can make everyday life challenging.
This Redditor (OP) had to deal with this tough situation as her roommate was constantly being irresponsible in sharing stuff. On the r/AmItheA**hle subreddit, the OP shared that she recently shared her candy with her male roommate, X. However, things got sticky when she found her sweets mostly gone, and X, a bit out of it, denied munching on them until faced with proof.
Now, the OP is thinking of stopping letting her roommate use her stuff, like her gaming console, because he couldn't respect other people's belongings. Scroll down to read the entire story! Don't forget to let us know your thoughts.
So now the OP is asking...
OP has lived with her male roommate for 2 years
OP shared her candy haul with roommate, and she then left the candy unattended on the kitchen counter
Five hours later, when the OP found her candy bag 90% empty on the coffee table with X passed out, she confronted him about it
OP contemplates asking her roommate to refrain from using her gaming console and other shared items
Was she wrong?
The second part of the edit...
Find a new roommate
The OP is not a jerk
It's necessary to have a conversation about his habits and boundaries to ensure the safety of the pet and the living space
Move belongings to your room and potentially find a new place when the lease is up
The roommate's behavior is childlike and unsuitable for cohabitation
Reconsider living with the roommate
Remove personal belongings from common areas or find alternative living arrangements
"Get outta there, girl!"