Woman Wants To Kick Neighbor's Dad, Who Is A Veteran And Has Cancer, Out Of The Neighborhood

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From the gloried r/AmIthe*sshole, we found a basket case that is both a war veteran and who is suffering from cancer.

In this situation, OP narrates the challenges arising from sharing a property with her husband and a long-time friend, Trent, along with Trent's father, a Vietnam vet with cancer and PTSD. Originally, the plan was to split the property for mutual financial benefits. However, complications arose when Trent's father's health deteriorated, and he moved onto the property.

The father's presence has led to various issues, with OP expressing discomfort over his behavior, especially towards her kids. The father's actions range from being overly critical of the children's activities to dictating household matters, such as meals and laundry. OP and her family find themselves living under what feels like a dictatorship.

Tensions escalate when the father demands assistance with house renovations and disrupts the household, prompting OP to contemplate discussing the issue with Trent. Despite acknowledging the father's health challenges, OP feels it's time for him to leave as his presence is causing significant disruption and stress.

So how can Reddit advise OP? Let's see!

Here's The Full Story

Here's The Full Story Source: Odd-Shower1582

Wholesome Neighborhood

Wholesome Neighborhood Source: Odd-Shower1582

What A Sad Story Why Did OP Wish That?

What A Sad Story Why Did OP Wish That? Source: Odd-Shower1582

Trent's Dad Is Really A Big Problem And You Can't Blame Him Either

Trent's Dad Is Really A Big Problem And You Can't Blame Him Either Source: Odd-Shower1582

Now I Know Why OP Dislikes Him

Now I Know Why OP Dislikes Him Source: Odd-Shower1582

OP Has Had Enough

OP Has Had Enough Source: Odd-Shower1582

Harsh But There's No Good Solution Right Now

Harsh But There's No Good Solution Right Now Source: Odd-Shower1582

Don't Think OP's The AH

Don't Think OP's The AH Source: Odd-Shower1582

Has Cancer And A Cancer!

The Fact That Trent Can't Even Eat With His Dad…

It's Not Like They're Living In The Same House Right

Could It Be Brain Tumours?

So I Guess Trents Dad Is A Problem They Have To Share

So I Guess Trents Dad Is A Problem They Have To Share Source: Odd-Shower1582

It's Trents Dad But It Seems He Crossed So Many Lines

Legally Speaking OP Is In The Wrong

Putting A Fence First Seems Like The Right Solution First

Not The AH But Looks Like Esh

Not The AH But Looks Like Esh Source: showgirlsteve

Are There Any Solutions?

Are There Any Solutions? Source: Princess_Plum9

There Are Other Solutions

There Are Other Solutions Source: Odd-Shower1582

Trent Should Have Taken This Matter Into His Own Hand Instead Of OP's

It's really sad that OP has to deal with this. What do you guys think? A vet is a well respected p but when it comes to specific case like this, it's hard to decide.