From the gloried r/AmIthe*sshole, we found a basket case that is both a war veteran and who is suffering from cancer.
In this situation, OP narrates the challenges arising from sharing a property with her husband and a long-time friend, Trent, along with Trent's father, a Vietnam vet with cancer and PTSD. Originally, the plan was to split the property for mutual financial benefits. However, complications arose when Trent's father's health deteriorated, and he moved onto the property.
The father's presence has led to various issues, with OP expressing discomfort over his behavior, especially towards her kids. The father's actions range from being overly critical of the children's activities to dictating household matters, such as meals and laundry. OP and her family find themselves living under what feels like a dictatorship.
Tensions escalate when the father demands assistance with house renovations and disrupts the household, prompting OP to contemplate discussing the issue with Trent. Despite acknowledging the father's health challenges, OP feels it's time for him to leave as his presence is causing significant disruption and stress.
So how can Reddit advise OP? Let's see!