Meet OP, who is in a difficult situation where they feel uncomfortable with their new neighbor, Molly, and her four small children. While OP initially tried to include Molly in neighborhood activities, challenges arose due to the presence of Molly's kids, who made it difficult for OP and the group to enjoy their plans fully. The issue escalated when OP avoided Molly, and tensions increased when Molly saw the group going for a walk without her.
OP's decision to exclude Molly from activities is understandable, given the differences in lifestyles and preferences. However, the way OP communicated this to Molly, stating that they don't want their plans altered by her children, may have come across as insensitive. Molly, on the other hand, exhibited some entitlement and failed to respect the boundaries and plans set by the group.