Taking that giant leap into cohabitation isn't just another relationship step. People approach it uniquely—some deliberate for years, others jump in headfirst within months. But here's what often slips by: the weight of this commitment isn't always immediately felt.
Suddenly, your choices aren't just about you; another individual enters your space. That's why those pre-move chats are critical. Sorting out financials (who pays what?), chore charts (the dish duty divide?), and especially guest guidelines (who, how often, how many?) is a must. Because the reality is, without these upfront discussions, you might find yourselves in uncomfortable spots. Cue in the pregnant wife from today's AITA post. Imagine coming back from a hospital stay—you'd expect warmth, order, and tranquility. But for one expectant mom, home was anything but serene.
Let's dive right into her detailed Reddit story below and brace yourself for the whirlwind that awaited her return. Trust me, it's an absorbing read, and there's definitely a lot to learn here.
OP is pregnant with her first child and struggling at her new home.
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OP had his brother's family over, and the house got messy. He asked them to clean before he woke up, but after his nap, nothing changed. So, he ended up doing the dishes himself.
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OP couldn't work due to noisy kids, while mom ignored them.
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OP's husband griped that she wasn't welcoming to brother's wife and didn't work.
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OP cried when husband refused to move brother's family. She called mom, shared all, and asked to come over.
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OP's family arrived, cleaned the apartment, and complained to the husband. OP rested during this time.
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Mother-in-law got upset and texted OP, calling them an a-hole.
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OP gives an update on the story.
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Now, brother's family is with MIL.
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OP will talk to husband in a hotel, who's upset about the situation.
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Both moms are handling OP's meals now.
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Husband admitted being upset. OP fainted while he was out. Husband apologized, using OP as an outlet for frustration. They're apart and in counseling.
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Here's the BIL's family update.
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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole:
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And the comments from other Redditors roll in...
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People suggest OP prepare for divorce soon.
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OP's family is very supportive and kind.
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Husband is acting irresponsibly, consider leaving.
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Now that you've read the story, it's time for you to spill the beans! Have you ever found yourself in a similar situation? Let us know in the comment section below.