Marriage, oh, marriage. One of the best aspects of being in one is having someone to share your joyful highs, heartbreaking lows, and plenty of dull moments with. Whether it's a bumpy road or a nice trip, our loved ones are always there for us. Unless we make a complete fool of ourselves, of course. Because we inevitably decide to carry out our most repulsive and perplexing ideas, leaving our partners mentally groaning and really rethinking their life choices.
These wives aren't any different. The internet is full with hilarious and ludicrous blunders that women make when trying to decorate their homes, surprise their lovers with gifts, or simply do them a favor. One thing is clear: they didn't intend for their conduct to shame their spouses, but it did. While these women wished the earth would take them whole, their spouses decided to amuse us by posting these humorous gaffes on social media.
According to John Kenny, a relationship empowerment coach, host of The Relationship Guy podcast, and author of The P.E.O.P.L.E. Programme: How to Overcome Your Blocks to Success, our partners may try to embarrass us when we are alone or in the company of others for a variety of reasons.
"First and foremost, we must analyze whether they are attempting to embarrass us or if they are simply joking and we are taking their actions or words personally, resulting in shame,". So, if they intentionally cause discomfort, it's usually to put themselves in a position of control, power, or whatever goal they're attempting to achieve, according to the relationship coach.
Kenny suggested that if spouses engage in undesirable behaviors in public as well, they may want to appear a certain way in front of others. Unfortunately, this can also indicate that they want you to be perceived as inept, ignorant, or simply beneath them. Then your partners may begin to pick on topics that they know will make you uncomfortable. "They may want others' approval in order to validate themselves." What better way to make yourself look bad than to make someone else look bad?" Furthermore, Kenny cautioned that gaslighting practices, which are brutal and frequently veiled emotional manipulations in toxic relationships, should be avoided.
We, on the other hand, are firm believers in the importance of laughing off one's shame. As a result, we combed the internet for some of the best examples of how charmingly amusing marriage can be. So keep scrolling, upvote the photos that made you laugh, and tell us about your own hilarious mishaps in the comments!
These wives aren't any different. The internet is full with hilarious and ludicrous blunders that women make when trying to decorate their homes, surprise their lovers with gifts, or simply do them a favor. One thing is clear: they didn't intend for their conduct to shame their spouses, but it did. While these women wished the earth would take them whole, their spouses decided to amuse us by posting these humorous gaffes on social media.
According to John Kenny, a relationship empowerment coach, host of The Relationship Guy podcast, and author of The P.E.O.P.L.E. Programme: How to Overcome Your Blocks to Success, our partners may try to embarrass us when we are alone or in the company of others for a variety of reasons.
"First and foremost, we must analyze whether they are attempting to embarrass us or if they are simply joking and we are taking their actions or words personally, resulting in shame,". So, if they intentionally cause discomfort, it's usually to put themselves in a position of control, power, or whatever goal they're attempting to achieve, according to the relationship coach.
Kenny suggested that if spouses engage in undesirable behaviors in public as well, they may want to appear a certain way in front of others. Unfortunately, this can also indicate that they want you to be perceived as inept, ignorant, or simply beneath them. Then your partners may begin to pick on topics that they know will make you uncomfortable. "They may want others' approval in order to validate themselves." What better way to make yourself look bad than to make someone else look bad?" Furthermore, Kenny cautioned that gaslighting practices, which are brutal and frequently veiled emotional manipulations in toxic relationships, should be avoided.
We, on the other hand, are firm believers in the importance of laughing off one's shame. As a result, we combed the internet for some of the best examples of how charmingly amusing marriage can be. So keep scrolling, upvote the photos that made you laugh, and tell us about your own hilarious mishaps in the comments!