Undoubtedly, nobody wants to be involved in a toxic relationship that could hurt ourselves and our beloved ones. That is why careful attention to red flags is necessary to stay away from abusive people.
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Taking to the subreddit
AmITheAsshole for advice, the Reddit account
u/ThrowRAsp677 shared the quarrel between her and her
fiance - fiancé. The poster engaged with her boyfriend two months ago, and they lived with her 12-year-old daughter, Ruby, in her house. Since the man moved into her place, he shared the mortgage payment with him, which probably made him believe he owned the house.
The daughter was a pet lover, and unfortunately, her favorite dog, Tic, passed away. To cheer her up, the Redditor hung a picture of Ruby's best friend on the wall. Although that comforted the little girl, the
fiance was annoyed by the “strange” photo.
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After failing to persuade
the poster to take the picture off, the man determined to do it himself when
the house owner was outside.
(dùng chủ ngữ linh hoạt tránh lặp nhưng cũng đừng làm cho ng đọc bị rôi nhé) He snapped at Ruby and threatened to throw the photo away if she brought it out of her room.
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In response to his ill-mannered action, the Redditor removed all his certificates and qualifications from that wall. It would be plausible to keep those degrees in his room if he demanded her daughter to do the same with the image of her precious dog.
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Consequently, her
fiance ranted at her and asked for his qualifications back up on the wall. Nonetheless, he insisted that there was no room for the dog picture.
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As the Redditor did not compromise on the fiance's unreasonable demand, he ignored both her and Ruby. He declared that he would not forgive them unless he got their apologies and all the certificates hung back up on the wall.
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The fiance’s behavior has evoked rage from the internet. Most netizens believed this was just the beginning of a painful life with this abusive partner, as he tended to show his true colors after marriage. Therefore, the poster should end this relationship asap, otherwise, both she and her daughter would be likely to suffer great misery.
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Many criticized the fiance as he was so arrogant and self-centered that he hung his qualifications on the house’s walls. He acted as if he wanted everyone to know about his diplomas and achievements, and he did not allow the dog photo to distract attention from those certificates.
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What do you think about the man in this story? If you were the poster, would you break up with him? Do you think it is self-absorbed and egotistical to hang qualifications on a house’s walls? Please share your thoughts with us in the comment below!